Bankman-Fried's Memo to Girlfriend Reveals Doubts About Emotions, Empathy in Their Relationship

Bankman-Fried sent his girlfriend Caroline Ellison a list of pros and cons about dating him, including that he lacked empathy and didn't have a soul.

The pros were that he liked her, she was smart, and they shared interests, but the longer cons list cited his lack of feelings.

Ellison wanted a conventional relationship but Bankman-Fried was conflicted on what he wanted.

Their relationship continued for years despite Bankman-Fried's reservations.

The memo reveals Bankman-Fried's inner doubts about emotions and relationships.